Amincin Allah, Taimakon Allah, Rahmar Allah, Gafarar Allah, Alherin Allah, Tsantsar Soyayyar Manzon Allah, Tarin Ilimi da aiki dashi, koshin Lafia, yalwar Arziki, Dauwamammen rufin Asiri, Cikawa da Imani duk su tabbata agareku, iyalanku da mahaifanku amin. Barka da Juma’a. Isah Musa Gusau
قالرسول الله صلى الله. عليه وآله
“أدبواأولادكم على ثلاث خصال;
حب نبيكم وحب أهل بيته. وقراءة قرآن”
Juz’i Na Daya (1)
Shafi Na Goma Sha Biyar (15}
Manzon Allah (S) Yace:-
Ku Ladabtar (Tarbiyantar wa) Da Yaranku Bisa Abubuwa Guda Uku!
Son Annabin Ku, Son Iyalan Gidansa (Tsarkaka) , Da Kuma Karatun Al-Qur’ani Me Girma”
🌲Dailamy ne yaruwaito hadisin!
ان الله و ملاءكته يصلون علي النبي يا ايها الذين امنو صلو عليه وسلموا تسليما.
اللهم صلي و سلم و رحم و بارك علي النبي العظيم الاعظم و رسول الكريم الاكرم، سيدنا محمد ،سيد الكون ورحمة الكل وعلي ءاله الطاهرين و سلم تسليما كثيرا كثيرا عدد خلقك و مداد كلماتك و منتهي رحمتك
Mafi hankalin mutane shine wanda ya bar
duniya tun kafin ta barshi, ya gyara
kabarinsa tun kafin ya zauna a cikinsa, ya
yarda da ubangijinsa tun kafin ya hadu
dashi,kuma yayi sallah a cikin jama’a tun kafin
su sallaceshi,sannan kuma yayiwa kansa hisabi
tun kafin ayi masa,domin yau (wato iya tsawon kwanakin da mutum yake raye) ranar aikice ba
hisabi amma kuma gobe (wato rayuwar barzahu da tsayuwar qiyama) ranar hisabi ce ba
ﺃﻋﻘﻞ ﺍﻟﻨﺎﺱ ﻣﻦ ﺗﺮﻙ ﺍﻟﺪﻧﻴﺎ ﻗﺒﻞ
ﺍﻥ ﺗﺘﺮﻛﻪ ﻭﺍﻧﺎﺭ ﻗﺒﺮﻩ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﻥ ﻳﺴﻜﻨﻪ ﻭﺍﺭﺿﻰ ﺭﺑﻪ ﻗﺒﻞ
ﺍﻥ ﻳﻠﻘﺎﻩ ﻭﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺠﻤﺎﻋﻪ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﻥ ﺗﺼﻠﻲ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺣﺎﺳﺐ
ﻧﻔﺴﻪ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﻥ ﺗﺤﺎﺳﺒﻪ ﻓﺎﻟﻴﻮﻡ ﻋﻤﻞ ﺑﻼﺣﺴﺎﺏ ﻭﻏﺪﺍ
ﺣﺴﺎﺏ ﺑﻼ ﻋﻤﻞ .
I copied this piece from My mail box, it is suitable and interesting husbands to read.
For Brothers Only….Seriously: Stop, Look, and Listen
You are having a wonderful day. The sun is out, there is a nice breeze, and you are reading your favorite book on the porch. Nothing could possible ruin this moment.
Right in your ear. A fly. Now you have to waste 5 minutes in battle with it as it tries to land in your ear over and over. You know what is interesting about this situation? The fly could have been sitting next to you for several hours, and you did not notice it until it came and buzzed in your ear. Now is when the presence of the fly matters.
You know what else is interesting about this situation? This is how many brothers treat their wives. They only notice them when they are trying to ‘bother’ them. This could possibly bring up feelings of resentment in your wife, the fact that the only time you seem to be interested in her is when you need something from her, or when she bugs you.
This is actually one of the three A’s that women need: attention. Women need attention to feel that they matter to you. As a matter of fact, everyone needs this, to feel that they matter to someone. It was said that one of the greatest gifts you can give a loved one is effective listening.
One of the things that lets someone know you are listening attentively is when you actually stop, look, and listen:
Stop whatever you are doing. Block out everything else. What the speaker has to say is all that matters at the moment.
Make eye contact with the person to let them know you are paying attention.
Let them know you are listening by head nods, verbal queues (yeah, uh huh), etc.
This is especially true when you are in an argument with your wife. If you both insist on talking and not listening, this is a collective monologue. You are either speaking or preparing to speak, which will get you nowhere.
Make it a point to sincerely listen your wife’s point of view, and repeat back some of what was said to show that you understand. This will save you time and prevent putting more strain on the relationship (She never listens to me!!! She never tries to see things my way!!!).
Even if you do not get your way when there is a clash, you are more likely to be content with the result if you felt the other person listened and understood your point of view.
So, my dear brothers, the next time you come home from work (I know I know, you had a hard day and you are tired), and your wife comes up to you with a big smile and starts to tell you about her wonderful day, what should you do? Stop. Look. Listen.
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HappyMuslimFamily.net is an effort to help muslim spouses live their family life according to the Shariah ahkam that instill contentment in the family lives as mentioned by Allah (subhanuhu wa ta’ala):
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” (Al Quran 30:21)
This tranquility in the Muslim families is missing today, in an era where we are deeply affected by the Western way of life and their corrupt concepts.
HappyMuslimFamily.net is an effort to educate the Muslim spouses to eradicate these corrupt western concepts and replace them with the pure concepts of Islam, in the light of Quran and Sunnah. Knowing these Islamic concepts and acting on them will result in tranquility in our homes and the society as well.
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May Allah bless all Muslim brothers and sisters with happy families!
JONATHAN SHUTS DOWN BUHARI/OSINBAJO FUND RAISING PLATFORM. FASHOLA REACTS……
Barely 48 hours ago I invited you to a press briefing to unveil our plans to raise funding for the Buhari-Osinbajo campaign.
I mentioned the commercial nature of the transactions we had with the businesses who were partnering with us and the benefits to the economy. I also stated very clearly that these businesses had no partisan relationship but are providing professional service.
I said so, in order to protect their businesses because of the increasing intolerance we were witnessing from the Jonathan and PDP Presidential campaign and some Federal Government agencies that have taken a partisan position.
It is with very deep sadness that I address you all today, because I never expected that I will witness in Nigeria some of the very distasteful and disgraceful conduct that the Federal Government, the PDP and the President have embarked upon, by way of repression of freedoms.
As a Nigerian, I feel personally embarrassed.
Before the end of Tuesday when I addressed you here, the National Communications Commission (the NCC) had issued a letter to the telecoms operators not to carry political messages. I will leave a copy of one of such letter to you.
The question to ask is, if traditional media, radio, newspapers and television can carry political messages, why should new and social media not participate and benefit?
Why should commercial transactions that promote business, the economy and jobs be frustrated because of one man’s desire to serve?
Why should a President who says he cares about young people and wants their votes be shutting down their generation’s platform?
Is the President himself not using the same platform? Is this not a media censorship?
As if this was not enough, reports reaching me yesterday evening was that the 35350 platform for contributing by SMS had been shut down.
On Tuesday when I announced the opening of the platform we getting 4-5 text messages of N100 each every one minute, and 5,400 messages had been received by 2.30pm after which they had stopped and I was getting text messages on my own phone by Nigerians complaining that they could no longer access the 35350 platform.
Approval was given by the same NCC to the Goodluck-Sambo campaign in 2010.
Inspite of these irritations, it is encouraging to us to note and to report to you that the enthusiasm of Nigerians for change is already visible from the first day we launched these payment platforms. Between the 5 banks alone, we have raised little sums of N822,928.80 from bank payments and N606,000 has been raised from the internet platform before the interference.
This is what we sought to achieve. A democratization of fund raising, transparency and commercial opportunities for businesses.
From now, the bank and one card scratch platforms are working and the urge Nigerians who wish to join this movement of change to continue to use them.
We use this medium to implore Mr. President to redeem his democratic credentials and act according to the peace pact he signed by directing NCC to restore the 35350 platform.
After all, this is nothing but a context of ideas aimed at serving the people.
Dear compatriots, there are dark clouds gathering, but I remain optimistic that they will yield to a glorious dawn. The promise of Nigeria is greater that the ambition of one man or a political party.
Beyond the campaign of the APC for change, there is already a momentum of the Nigerian people for change that is far ahead of our campaign.
This is the people’s desire, nothing can stop it. The dictates of honour demand that no right thinking person should attempt to resist it.
May God bless and prosper Nigeria.
Babatunde Raji Fashola, SAN
Governor of Lagos State
January 22, 2015
” O Allah, set right for us our religion which is the safeguard of our affairs. And set right for us the affairs of our world wherein is our living. And set right for us our hereafter to which is our return. And make this life for us a source of abundance for every good and make our death a source of comfort for us protecting us against every evil. Jumu’a mubarakah. AVSEC Isah Gusau Minna A/P